Weekly Newsletter
Not Sex Addict... Sexual BLUEPRINT! Reframing Sexual Needs & Desires as the care and Feeding of a Love Language

Last weekend I went to my partner Scott and began a conversation where I stated that there were two times in my life that my cup had felt "overflowing". Both involved opening my relationship and having additional partner play.

Now - feeling full or even almost full in our love and sexual...

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EP#75: Aftercare Post-Sex: Creating an Intentional Practice

At the beginning of this podcast I talk about how freaking sad my sex life was for the first two decades of my life. In this clip I share with you what it was like to have sex with Scott for the first time.

The amount of care and intention he put into setting a beautiful space, having...

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EP#73: Dating For Newbies: Your First S*x Date with Jennifer Ruscin

This podcast is for those that are ready to date.

This might be simple like a coffee or cocktail hour.

It’s a GREAT idea ladies to go dutch so it’s not weird for you.. And there is no obligation to do ANYTHING… even a kiss.

This might also include meeting up to just f*ck.

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Ep#72: Get Outta Your Head & Into Their Bed with Jo Leavitt

The confident Swinger Jo Leavitt is back on the show this week with a brand new topic: Get Outta Your Head & Into Their Bed!

Jo and I recorded Ep#55: Swinging 101 where we cover what Swinging is, and how to get into it if you’re curious.

Today we have actionable steps for...

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Ep#71: C0*k Worship 101 with Jennifer Ruscin

It’s been 6 months since I’ve done a solo episode, so let me get you all caught up.  

This episode was burning inside of me because I had a man online tell me “All I desire is for a woman to want to pleasure ME. I give, and give, and give to the women in my life,...

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Ep#69: How to Keep Long Term Sex HOT with Scott & Jen

In the spirit of 69’ing… which is all about reciprocity… mutual pleasure…. mutual desire… the “I’m so turned on I’ve gotta have you in my mouth RIGHT NOW” energy…

Today’s episode is about how to keep long term relationships...

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EP#68: Male Performance Issues with Keeley Rankin

Keeley Rankin is a sex and relationship coach that specializes in male performance issues.

This episode is for the men!

Keeley’s (@keeleyrankinsexcoach) first experience with erectile issues happened back when she was 16, and it spurred a curiosity in her that has lasted throughout...

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Ep#67: His Pleasure, Her Pleasure with Rachel Maine

Rachel Maine is a therapist turned sex and relationship coach, and today is all about PLEASURE.

We talk male & female pleasure.

How to talk to kids about pleasure.

Body Mapping.

How to bring more pleasure to your partner.

And MORE!

Podcast: ...

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How Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop Changed my S*x Life

1 year ago I watched episode 1 of Sex, Love, & Goop, and it completely changed my relationship with my ex-husband ….. and it’s changed the trajectory of my life.

I saw deep sensuality and a whole world of possibilities open up for me.

Sex was vanilla up until then.

We went...

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#57: STI's 101 with Nurse Practitioner Lauren Haines

More than 50% of all humans have STI's, so why all the shame?

Today's podcast with nurse practitioner Lauren Haines de-stigmatizes STI's and STD's allowing us to hear the facts and normalize this part of being sexually intimate with others.

It's not as scary as society has made it out to be.

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#56: Sexcapades with Tony Hatch & Cristina Lopez

Y'all asked for more of Tony and Cristina so here you go!

An episode all about their + my Sexcapades.

Topics covered:

  • Fantasies Come True
  • Weirdest Situations
  • Newbie Mistakes
  • Kinkiest Story
  • First Sex Party
  • Most Grateful For
  • Our Wish Lists

Tony & Cris has the top #1 and #2 episodes on my...

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The Making of Brandi

Last Tuesday I arranged for my partner Scott and I to meet at a hotel.

I was Brandi, an Escort. My partner made up the persona of Travis, a lonely widow.

I arrived at the hotel early to shower, dress, and then met him at the bar downstairs.

Y'all... I was so freaking nervous. I never dress like...

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