Weekly Newsletter
Not Sex Addict... Sexual BLUEPRINT! Reframing Sexual Needs & Desires as the care and Feeding of a Love Language

Last weekend I went to my partner Scott and began a conversation where I stated that there were two times in my life that my cup had felt "overflowing". Both involved opening my relationship and having additional partner play.

Now - feeling full or even almost full in our love and sexual...

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Conscious Coparenting These Days

So much is happening in my world and I wanted to update you!

If you're new to my blog, I wrote a bunch of posts a little more than a year ago about the uncoupling of my 2nd marriage.

Over the past year, so much has happened.

We divorced.

My partner Scott moved in.

After 6 months of building our...

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EP#77: How to Lovingly Break Up with Jennifer Ruscin

There is a better way to break up with people, and I'm committed to showing how it's possible with my own life.

After 2 ex-husbands and a full-time life partner that currently co-parent my boys with me, I've discovered how to coexist peacefully and lovingly with my current and past partners.

This...

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EP#76: Men: Decoding the Dating Mystery with Jake Voss

This week I have Jake Voss on the podcast. Jake is a fashion consultant, IT manager for a school system, boy dad, and lover of snowboarding.

 

Post-divorce, Jake has taken the time to figure out how to date well, and today he’s here to give men a guidebook on how to land dates....

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EP#75: Aftercare Post-Sex: Creating an Intentional Practice

At the beginning of this podcast I talk about how freaking sad my sex life was for the first two decades of my life. In this clip I share with you what it was like to have sex with Scott for the first time.

The amount of care and intention he put into setting a beautiful space, having...

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EP#74: 64 First Dates with Talia Koren

Talia Koren is the podcast host of Dating Intentionally: https://datingintentionally.podbean.com/ and I’ve been fangirling over her content for months.

(Be sure and follow her on Instagram! It’s sooo good.)

On today’s show we talk about:

  • What dating is like in 2023
  • ...
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EP#73: Dating For Newbies: Your First S*x Date with Jennifer Ruscin

This podcast is for those that are ready to date.

This might be simple like a coffee or cocktail hour.

It’s a GREAT idea ladies to go dutch so it’s not weird for you.. And there is no obligation to do ANYTHING… even a kiss.

This might also include meeting up to just f*ck.

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We're Dating!

It's been a while since I've blogged, and it's because I've been having so much dang fun living and exploring our new dynamic.

Let me take you back a few weeks to my podcast recording with Alexandra Stockton.

My plan was to focus solely on her Uncompromising Intimacy theme, and what happened was...

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The Making of Brandi

Last Tuesday I arranged for my partner Scott and I to meet at a hotel.

I was Brandi, an Escort. My partner made up the persona of Travis, a lonely widow.

I arrived at the hotel early to shower, dress, and then met him at the bar downstairs.

Y'all... I was so freaking nervous. I never dress like...

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